If you are looking for ways to please your lady, you are absolutely at the right place. In this article, we will be looking at practical ways (and considerations), that will blow her mind and absolutely leave her wanting more. If that sounds interesting, then read on!
1. Quality not Quantity
When it comes to foreplay, many men underestimate its importance. For women, it is part of the experience and something that has sex so much more fulfilling. Ignoring it is likely to be met with frustration and dissatisfaction. Additionally, going through the motions is just not going to cut it. Go for quality moves that you know she absolutely loves- the more invested you are in the foreplay, the more she will respond.
2. Be Aggressive- But Start Slow
Does this sound contradictory? Probably! But it absolutely works. Men who are assertive and know how to start things, are attractive. Being a little rough and a little aggressive. At the same time, it’s important to start by kissing and touching erogenous zones, such as the neck, thighs and breasts. If you start touching her most sensitive areas, too soon, you run the risk of turning her off.
3. Understand that she works differently
Women and men work differently, in a biological sense. Many women need more time to get in the mood and more time to orgasm. If you can understand this, and don’t expect her to work the same way as you, then you are already half way there. Learn what makes her tick, give her time and patience and never compare her to yourself, or women you have had in the past.
4. Make Her Comfortable
Everyone has insecurities, and women battle with these daily. If she comes onto you sexually, she might be shamed as being a woman of lose morals. If she doesn’t, she’s a prude. If she doesn’t look like a model in a magazine, she’s a failure. Combat this by complimenting her on her actions and her looks, at her most vulnerable moments. Try low lighting and soft music to help make her comfortable. If she is comfortable, she is far more likely to enjoy herself and want more in the (near) future! Oh and it will help a lot to gift her an nice piece of kinky lingerie
5. Hair Pulling and Dirty Talk
If you’ve followed the steps above, your woman should be comfortable and in the mood. To ramp things up a notch, try talking dirty or gently, but firmly, pulling her hair. No two women are the same, so if she doesn’t look like she’s enjoying it, change track. That said, many women enjoy a little bit of roughness and passion! Try this while helping her put on a body harness or body chains
Hopefully this article has given you some ideas for a successful time with your lady. Remember, every person is different, and it is the care, consideration and thought for your partner that is a major turn-on for most people!