Okay, so you’re a woman in your thirties, and maybe you’re not feeling as confident about lingerie as you used to. Maybe you don’t think you can pull it off like you used to, or maybe you’re not sure what is the most flattering thing for you to be wearing.
I know what it’s like to have insecurities start to raise their head, which is why I made this guide as a way to help women like you feel more confident in their skin!
When you’re in your 20’s, you can absolutely pull off a range of colors. Bright pink will look cheeky, bold red will look sexy and classic black will look mysterious and elegant.
When you’re a little older, it can be better to stick to bold or elegant colors. Maybe stay away from the bright pink (but rock it if you are feeling confident in it!) and go for the sultry red and simple black. Remember, if you are in doubt, stick to colors that you already wear in your daily life, and model your erotic lingerie after them. You know what colors flatter your skin tone, so make sure that you choose similar ones in your lingerie life. There is no wrong answer here!
Shape and fit
This might seem like a tricky one, but it really isn’t! Your body may have changed from when you were younger, but the principles stay the same. You need to make sure that you are wearing clothes that are flattering to your figure, whatever that may be. If you are big busted, make sure your lingerie offers support. If you are conscious about your stomach, try a corset, or maybe a teddy or baby-doll outfit. Whatever you choose, wear what makes you feel good! After all, when you feel good, you look sexy, and isn’t that an amazing feeling?
Sometimes it feels like the older we get, the busier we get. Am I right? I mean, it can be hard to find the time to wear sexy lingerie or kinky lingerie and that’s okay! See, if that’s the case, never underestimate the power of matching your underwear! If your bra and panties are the same color, you will immediately feel on top of the world.
Now that we’ve covered the basics, don’t be afraid to take a couple of risks in the name of sexy fashion (like a body harness or a sexy set of body chains). I promise you’ll feel amazing for it! You are beautiful and you can pull off whatever outfit turns your head. You are worth it, and you absolutely deserve it.